Blessed + Bossed Up

Should Christian business owners use AI? Is personal branding self-centered? And how do you sell high-ticket offers without feeling manipulative? In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum answers the questions Christian entrepreneurs are actively searching for online—from using AI and automation with discernment to building a personal brand, charging premium prices, and closing sales with integrity. Tatum breaks down how to: Use AI and automation without abandoning discernment Build a personal brand without making your life the product Position yourself as a thought leader Justify premium pricing with real value and results Validate your offers before selling them at full price Create a sales process that feels genuine—not manipulative Use technology to increase efficiency while keeping the human connection This episode kicks off Search Bar Sessions, a new series where Tatum answers the questions her audience—and the internet—are actively searching for answers to at the intersection of faith, business, technology, and entrepreneurship. If you're a Christian entrepreneur trying to grow your business while keeping God at the center, this conversation is for you. Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Part 2 What do we do when we’re waiting on God and don’t know whether His answer will be yes or no? In Part 2 of this conversation, we explore what it looks like to keep hoping and trusting God while we wait. Tatum shares the story of Hannah, the danger of deferred hope, and the importance of remembering God’s track record in our lives. She also shares a special testimony about leading her six-year-old son to Christ and how his simple understanding of the gospel reminded her of what it means to keep our faith focused on who God is—not just what He can do. In this episode: Why we shouldn’t stop hoping to protect ourselves from disappointment What Hannah teaches us about praying with faith How to keep track of God’s answered prayers Finding contentment in the things God didn’t give us Shifting from “What if God says no?” to “What if God says yes?” Why our hope ultimately has to rest in who God is Scripture: 1 Samuel 1, Proverbs 13:12, Matthew 26:39, Romans 5:1–11 This week’s challenge: Make two lists: Desires God has fulfilled Desires God didn’t fulfill that ultimately worked out for your good Use both lists to strengthen your faith, contentment, and hope while you wait. Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What do you do when you have a deep desire, you know God is fully able to give it to you, but you also understand that He may say no? In Part 1 of this powerful conversation, Tatum creates space for an honest conversation about faith, hope, and the desires of our hearts. How do you continue believing for healing, marriage, children, business success, restoration, or any other desire when God never explicitly promised that specific outcome? This episode is a reminder that mature faith does not mean pretending you do not care about the outcome. It means bringing your real desires, fears, questions, and hopes to God while trusting Him enough to surrender to His will. Through examples from Scripture—including the Hebrew boys, Moses, David, Paul, and Jesus—Tatum explores what it means to believe that God is able, and still trust Him if the answer is no. If you have ever found yourself wondering where your faith should land when you know the outcome is uncertain, this conversation is for you. Be encouraged: you do not have to deny what you deeply desire in order to have faith. You can ask boldly, hope fully, pray honestly, and still say, “Nevertheless, not my will, but Yours be done.” This is Part 1 of a two-part conversation. Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum reflects on her first year of law school and shares what God has taught her about navigating a non-traditional path. From balancing marriage, motherhood, entrepreneurship, and legal education to overcoming imposter syndrome and comparison, she offers honest encouragement for anyone whose journey doesn't fit the expected timeline. Whether you're returning to school, changing careers, starting over, waiting on God's promises, or stepping into unfamiliar territory, this conversation is a reminder that God often works through unconventional paths to accomplish extraordinary purpose. In this episode, Tatum discusses: What it means to live a non-traditional life Lessons learned from her first year of law school Overcoming imposter syndrome and comparison How previous life experiences become unexpected advantages Biblical examples of God using unconventional people and timelines Practical encouragement for embracing God's timing and purpose Key Scriptures Isaiah 53 Romans 8:28 2 Corinthians 12:9 Hebrews 11 If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs the reminder that God's plan is never limited by a traditional timeline. Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tatum reminds you to prioritize the 7 guardrails discussed in the last episode to protect your relationship with God as you build for His glory. Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tatum opens up about a season where the demands of ministry, business, and family started to make her relationship with God feel transactional instead of relational. Drawing on personal testimony, research on dual-role relationships and boundary theory, and Scripture (Revelation 2:2–5, Matthew 7:21–23), she unpacks why this shift happens to those called to "do business God's way" — and shares seven practical guardrails to protect intimacy with God while still walking in purpose. Key Topics Why partnering with God in work can slowly turn relational closeness into a transactional exchange Lessons from organizational psychology: role conflict, dual-role relationships, and boundary theory A real-life example of healthy boundaries in a business partnership (Anchored Media Studios) Revelation 2:2–5 — the warning to the church in Ephesus about losing "first love" Matthew 7:21–23 — good works without true relationship 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Closeness with God Quiet time, no work allowed — protected time with God that isn't about output Get involved in in-person community — find an accountability partner Serve in ministry outside your professional skill set Practice the Sabbath Fast regularly — without asking for anything Worship without asking for anything (try 30 minutes a day) Keep a "God ideas" journal — capture downloads without acting on them immediately Scripture Referenced Revelation 2:2–5 Matthew 7:21–23 Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tatum is currently under the weather and wanted to send you this reminder to disrupt well. -- Welcome back to another installment of our Bible on Business series! In today’s episode, we dive into the powerful message that Kingdom Entrepreneurs are Disruptors. Through the example of Apostle Paul in Ephesus (Acts 19:23-32), we explore how true kingdom businesses inevitably challenge cultural and economic norms, much like Paul’s ministry did against idolatry and occultic practices in Ephesus. Episode Highlights: The Disruptive Impact of Kingdom Businesses Paul’s ministry in Ephesus created an economic and spiritual ripple effect, revealing the clash between kingdom values and societal idols like greed, idolatry, and exploitation. As kingdom entrepreneurs, we must be prepared to face similar resistance when operating with integrity and purpose. The Inevitable “Riot” Just as Paul’s ministry sparked a riot, modern kingdom businesses often challenge norms that are deeply embedded in the business world. From hustle culture to manipulative marketing, today’s entrepreneurs are called to disrupt these standards, knowing that resistance is part of the journey. Building Businesses with Integrity and Impact Tatum shares practical tips for maintaining purity in business, including transparent pricing, prioritizing purpose over profit, and incorporating charity. By staying rooted in prayer, relying on community support, and being intentional about leaving a legacy that glorifies God rather than self, entrepreneurs can build resilient, kingdom-focused businesses. Key Takeaways for Disruptive Kingdom Entrepreneurship: Transparent Pricing and Practices – Build trust by being open about materials, sources, and policies that prioritize integrity. Prioritize Purpose Over Profit – Support charitable causes or community initiatives, demonstrating that the kingdom purpose is greater than the bottom line. Root Yourself in Prayer and Community – Prayer and community are essential for navigating the challenges of disrupting worldly systems. Ensure a Legacy of Faith, Not Fame – Aim to leave a Christ-centered legacy by putting Christ at the center of all business activities. Scripture Reference: Acts 19:23-32 – Paul’s ministry in Ephesus and the disruptive impact it had on a society steeped in idolatry. Tatum encourages listeners to embrace the reality that as kingdom entrepreneurs, they’re called to disrupt the status quo. With wisdom from Paul’s journey and practical tips, this episode empowers listeners to courageously confront opposition, build ethically, and leave a lasting impact that glorifies God. Don't Forget: If this podcast has blessed you, leave us a 5-star review and share with friends, family, or colleagues who might be encouraged by these insights. Your support helps us spread the message and empower more entrepreneurs to make God the CEO of their businesses. Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Wrapping up the Ruthless Elimination of Hurry book club, Tatum shifts into a candid, personal conversation about the difference between genuine trust in God and avoidance dressed up as spirituality. Drawing from psychology, Scripture, and her own experience praying through her grandmother's stage-four cancer diagnosis, she unpacks how Christians — especially high-achieving entrepreneurs — often mistake "rushing to joy" for faith when it's really a defense mechanism keeping them from real intimacy with God. What's Covered A book club update: The group has finished The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry and is moving toward a business-focused pick next, with Great CEOs Are Lazy under consideration as a way to explore building a business from sustainability rather than hustle culture. The spiritualizing of avoidance: Why avoidance is one of the most socially acceptable defense mechanisms in Christian culture, often hiding behind phrases like "God's got me" or "I'm not sad, the joy of the Lord is my strength." A personal story: How Tatum navigated her grandmother's 90-day cancer prognosis, the shift in her prayers from demanding a specific outcome to surrendering the outcome entirely, and what that taught her about the difference between avoidance and trust. The psychology of avoidance: A look at "experiential avoidance" — the attempt to escape or numb uncomfortable emotions — and the research linking it to anxiety, depression, and other forms of psychological distress. Avoidance in entrepreneurship: How uncertainty, a core ingredient of faith, gets treated as a threat — leading business owners to quietly override God's specific instructions with their own "safer," more marketable plans. Root causes of avoidance: Fear, shame, the desire for control, and unprocessed pain, and how each shows up in decision-making, dating, finances, and launching a business. Signs you're avoiding rather than trusting: Refusing to face the worst-case scenario, and praying only for a fix rather than for comfort and wisdom. A practical reframe: The question Tatum returns to again and again — both for herself and for others — "Do you have to do anything?" Key Takeaways Avoidance offers temporary relief but blocks growth, resilience, and closeness with God; trust requires sitting with the discomfort instead of rushing past it. Faith is not the absence of uncertainty — uncertainty is built into the definition of faith itself. Facing a worst-case scenario isn't inviting it to happen; it's being honest about what's driving your emotions so you can bring it to God fully. Disappointment and trust can coexist. Being able to feel disappointed while still saying "not my will, but yours" is a marker of spiritual maturity, not a lack of faith. Avoidance often looks like wisdom, planning, and having it all together — which is exactly why it goes unchecked in high achievers. Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This episode wraps up the book club discussion of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry with the remaining ten practices for slowing down, plus a personal, unscripted reflection on trusting God through uncertainty. The episode opens with a raw moment about navigating law school as a non-traditional student, including a candid conversation with God about wanting to see the bigger picture before feeling secure in obedience. The takeaway: God often withholds the full plan on purpose, not to withhold comfort, but to keep us dependent on Him rather than on our own self-sufficiency. From there, the conversation returns to the list of 20 practices for slowing down, picking up at number 11 and continuing through number 20. Topics include setting boundaries around email and social media, the debate over cutting out television entirely, the case for single-tasking over multitasking, taking a regular day of silence and solitude, journaling, mindfulness and meditation through a Christian lens, taking real vacations, and the value of slowing down around food, whether that means cooking at home or being intentional while eating out. The episode closes out the book club pick with a reflection on the book's epilogue and an open question about what to read next. Key Highlights A personal reflection on asking God for the "big picture" and what He said in response Why God sometimes keeps the full plan hidden, even when you are being obedient Practices 11 through 20 for slowing down, including thoughts on which ones felt useful and which felt overly rigid A respectful disagreement with the author's stance on cutting out TV entirely Why single-tasking, not multitasking, is the one non-negotiable on the list The value of a monthly day of silence and solitude, and a smaller, more realistic version of it Mindfulness and meditation reframed through scripture rather than secular practice Closing thoughts on the book's epilogue and an open call for the next book club pick Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This episode wraps up the discussion on simplicity and moves into the fourth and final practice of unhurried living: slowing. Before diving in, the episode opens with a personal reflection on what it looked like to actually live this out — a season of downsizing a business, laying off a team, and trusting God's call to slow down even when it made no practical sense. From there, the conversation shifts to contentment — specifically the way Paul uses "I can do all things through Christ" in Philippians, not as a battle cry for achievement, but as a testimony about being at peace in any circumstance. Contentment is framed not as the absence of ambition, but as the ability to hold desire without striving — checking with God before chasing the next opportunity rather than figuring it out on your own. The episode then moves into the author's 20 practical tips for slowing down, covering the first ten. The list centers heavily on driving habits and phone use — driving the speed limit, arriving early without your phone, and intentionally creating a "dumb phone" experience by removing notifications, social media, and email. Several tips are reflected on personally, including changes made to phone settings after reading the chapter. Key Highlights What it actually looked like to obey God's call to slow down in the middle of a business crisis The difference between toxic ambition and healthy drive — and how healing changes what you are chasing and why Contentment as restraint, not passivity — wanting more while still being at peace with where you are Reading Ecclesiastes as a practical starting point for anyone who wants to pray for contentment The first 10 of 20 practical tips for slowing down, with honest reactions to each A personal phone audit — which notifications stayed, which were deleted, and why Products Available — Moving Sale! Tatum is moving and has a limited number of physical resources available for just $5 each (+ shipping — total order stays under $10). Once they're gone, they're gone! Available now: GOD is My CEO: A Prayer Journal for Entrepreneurs (Limited Edition — gold spiral binding, hardcover, full-color, tabbed) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/hlsLhd-AVdk Podcast Planner (Physical planner with everything Tatum has learned from 9+ years of podcasting and helping 150+ people launch) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/bfpY3zdG9aA She Is Uncompromising (The book — includes access to a bonus masterclass) 👉🏾 https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, we continue our discussion of John Mark Comer's book The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry, picking up with his chapter on simplicity and money. Episode Overview This episode covers Comer's chapter on simplicity, including his take on Jesus' teachings about money, the practice of minimalism, and 12 principles for simpler living. The episode also includes a running critique of where the author's analysis of wealth falls short. Key Discussion Points On Jesus and money Comer argues that roughly 25% of Jesus' teachings address money and possessions, and that nearly none of them are positive toward wealth accumulation. He connects three short teachings from Matthew 6 — on storing treasures in heaven, the lamp of the body, and serving two masters — to one long teaching on worry, making the case that what we worship, we worry about. The episode pushes back on this framing. Jesus' statements like "it is more blessed to give than to receive" and "you cannot serve both God and money" are not condemnations of wealth itself. They are observations about the condition of the heart. Money funds generosity, finances kingdom work, and creates the margin to serve others well. The issue is not wealth but what wealth does to a person's heart when it becomes their source of identity or security. A personal example: being a landlord to a tenant facing breast cancer and financial hardship. Having financial margin allowed for grace — accepting late or partial payments, covering the mortgage independently — in a way that would not have been possible otherwise. That is wealth functioning as a tool for kingdom living. On the author's framework Comer eventually acknowledges the tension — noting that Jesus was supported by wealthy donors, had disciples manage a budget, and shared meals with rich friends — but does not spend enough time there. The scriptures he cites actually contain the nuance he underexplores. When someone uses scripture primarily to validate a point already formed, rather than letting scripture shape the point, it is worth noticing. That pattern reveals a lot about how a person is operating, even if unintentionally. What minimalism actually is (and is not) Comer offers several clarifications: It is not a design aesthetic or a style preference. It is not poverty or living without enjoyment. It is not organizing your stuff — if you have so much that it requires organizing, labeling, and boxing, you likely have too much. Minimalism is the intentional promotion of what you value most and the removal of what distracts from it. It applies not just to possessions but to time, mental load, and the condition of the heart. Hurry is not only a physical state — it is a condition of the mind. Comer's 12 Principles for Simple Living Before buying, consider the true cost — maintenance, time, insurance, and what it will do to the pace of your life. Before buying, ask whether the purchase harms the poor or the earth. The garment industry is a direct example: in the 1960s, 95% of American clothing was made in the U.S.; today it is 2%, often produced under exploitative conditions. (Covered within principle 2 — the ethics of globalized manufacturing.) When you do buy, opt for fewer, better things. Buy it once. When you can, share. Community and the sharing economy reduce the need to own. Get into the habit of giving things away. Generosity is both practical and life-giving. Personal example: passing along baby clothes and supplies within community, and using the school's used uniform shop to outfit a child for a fraction of retail cost. Live by a budget. In a culture that glorifies frivolous spending, budgeting is a form of good stewardship. Enjoyment belongs in the budget — but so does discipline. Learn to enjoy things without owning them. Parks, libraries, coffee shops, and natural spaces are available to everyone. Cultivate a deep appreciation for creation. Cultivate a deep appreciation for simple pleasures. Recognize advertising for what it is. (Partial disagreement here: advertising is not propaganda or lying — there are laws against false advertising. The more accurate takeaway is to be intentional about not purchasing what you do not actually need.) Lead a cheerful revolt against materialism. Actively and joyfully reject the pull toward accumulation. Scripture Referenced Matthew 6 (Sermon on the Mount — storing treasures, the lamp of the body, serving two masters, and do not worry) 1 Timothy 6:17-19 (Paul's command to the rich in Ephesus) Connect and Share Leave a comment on Spotify, share this episode, or send an email with your thoughts — especially your perspective on the critique of how wealth and money were framed throughout this chapter. Products Available — Moving Sale! Tatum is moving and has a limited number of physical resources available for just $5 each (+ shipping — total order stays under $10). Once they're gone, they're gone! 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In this episode, we continue our journey through The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, diving into the third principle of unhurried living: simplicity. Before getting into the chapter, there is a quick reminder about the moving sale — physical copies of the God Is My CEO Prayer Journal, the podcast planner, and She Is Uncompromising are still available for just $5 each plus shipping. Orders of 10 or more ship free. Links are in the show notes. The episode opens with a reflection on Sabbath practices from last week's discussion, including a practical tip for using AI tools like ChatGPT or Claude to generate hobby ideas that align with rest and worship — not work. From floral arranging to crafting custom tea blends, the goal is finding activities that slow you down and reconnect you with the beauty of God's creation. The heart of the episode centers on what the author calls the "gospel of America" — the cultural belief that life's meaning is found in accumulation and consumption. Drawing on Jesus' own words about wealth, greed, and the deceitfulness of riches, listeners are challenged to honestly examine whether they would follow God even if success never looked the way they envisioned. The episode also takes a critical look at the history of American consumerism, the rise of lifestyle marketing and influencer culture, and the very real spiritual danger of allowing things — cars, clothes, brands, and clout — to become identity markers. A Princeton study by Kahneman and Deaton, originally placing the happiness income threshold at $75,000 (approximately $108,500 in today's dollars), sparks a candid pushback: money is not the problem when it is used to buy freedom, experiences, and time rather than stuff. The episode challenges the author's framing while affirming his core point — the relentless accumulation of things accelerates hurry and pulls us away from the unhurried life Jesus modeled. The episode wraps before the chapter's 12 practical tips on simplicity, which will be covered in the next episode. Key Highlights Moving sale is still active — prayer journals, podcast planner, and more available for $5 each; orders of 10 or more ship free Using AI tools to brainstorm Sabbath-friendly hobbies that cannot be turned into a business The "gospel of America" — how consumerism has replaced religion as the dominant system of meaning in Western culture A hard introspective question: would you still follow God if your business never produced the results on your vision board? The history of how corporate America deliberately engineered a culture of consumption after World War II A challenge to Christian content creators who promote products to examine whether that activity contributes to consumerism The $75,000 happiness study — published in 2010, equivalent to roughly $108,500 today — and why a fixed happiness ceiling is worth questioning The distinction between spending money on stuff versus spending money on freedom, time, and experiences Next episode: the remaining half of the simplicity chapter, including 12 practical tips from the author Products Available — Moving Sale! Tatum is moving and has a limited number of physical resources available for just $5 each (+ shipping — total order stays under $10). Once they're gone, they're gone! Available now: GOD is My CEO: A Prayer Journal for Entrepreneurs (Limited Edition — gold spiral binding, hardcover, full-color, tabbed) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/hlsLhd-AVdk Podcast Planner (Physical planner with everything Tatum has learned from 9+ years of podcasting and helping 150+ people launch) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/bfpY3zdG9aA She Is Uncompromising (The book — includes access to a bonus masterclass) 👉🏾 https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We're continuing our book club series on The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, and this week we're diving into Part Three — the how of living an unhurried life. After covering silence and solitude last episode, today we go deep on one of the most underrated and underused spiritual practices in Christian spaces: the Sabbath. But first — Tatum shares a raw and beautiful testimony from her quiet time this week, a moment on the floor in her daughter's room that turned into a soul-restoring encounter with the Father. She also gets real about a revelation she received for Christian entrepreneurs: the difference between your working relationship with God and your personal relationship with Him — and why both matter. In This Episode Testimony: What happened when Tatum lay on the floor, didn't know what to pray, and started speaking in tongues — and why she bawled her eyes out The working relationship vs. the personal relationship with God — a word for veteran Christian entrepreneurs who have the rhythm down but may be missing the closeness The YouTube plan she shelved — and why she chose the Father over the plan What is the Sabbath? The Hebrew meaning of Shabbat (to stop) and why God built this rhythm into the DNA of creation Desire, restlessness, and the digital age — how advertising monetizes our restlessness and why only God can satisfy infinite desire What happens to your mind, body, and soul when you fight the Sabbath rhythm — including what happened in France when they tried a 10-day work week The statistics: Why Seventh-Day Adventists live 10 years longer than the average American Two lists: Restfulness vs. Relentlessness — which one describes your life right now? Practical tips for busy bodies who struggle with the "in-between" of rest — including how Tatum's Friday grocery habit accidentally created a more restful weekend What the Sabbath actually looks like — the author's family practice and how to find what works for yours Working from rest, not for rest — and why the Sabbath is the climax of the week, not just a break in it Next episode: Simplicity Key Quote "The Sabbath isn't just a 24-hour time slot in your weekly schedule. It's a spirit of restfulness that goes with you throughout your week. A way of living with ease, gratitude, appreciation, peace, and prayer. A way of working from rest, not for rest, with nothing to prove. A way of bearing fruit from abiding and not ambition." — John Mark Comer, The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry Tatum's Word for Christian Entrepreneurs As you grow in doing business God's way, don't let the working relationship replace the personal one. You can be in rhythm with God in your business and still have a void in your closeness to Him as His daughter. Tend to both. The business meetings with God matter — and so does just lying at His feet with nothing to say. Resources Mentioned 📖 Book Club Pick: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer — [grab your copy here] 🛒 Products Available — Moving Sale! Tatum is moving and has a limited number of physical resources available for just $5 each (+ shipping — total order stays under $10). Once they're gone, they're gone! Available now: 📒 GOD is My CEO: A Prayer Journal for Entrepreneurs (Limited Edition — gold spiral binding, hardcover, full-color, tabbed) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/hlsLhd-AVdk 🎙️ Podcast Planner (Physical planner with everything Tatum has learned from 9+ years of podcasting and helping 150+ people launch) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/bfpY3zdG9aA 📚 She Is Uncompromising (The book — includes access to a bonus masterclass) 🙏🏾 Business Meetings with God — 90-Day Devotional (Includes 2 bonus masterclasses: "How to Have a Business Meeting with God" by Tatum Temia + "How to Prioritize Your Time with God" by Roslyn Rene, LSMW) 👉🏾 https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop 💛 Attention Churches, Women's Groups & Communities Do you lead or belong to a women's ministry, small group, sorority, or community organization? If your order is 10 or more items, the products are FREE — you only pay shipping. The discount is automatically applied at checkout. This is Tatum's way of blessing communities of women with tools to grow closer to the Lord together. 👉🏾 https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this deeply personal episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum returns after finals season to continue the book club series on The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer. This conversation explores the first practice for “unhurrying” your life: silence and solitude. From motherhood and entrepreneurship to law school and spiritual formation, Tatum shares how busyness, noise, and constant stimulation can quietly disconnect us from the presence of God — and how reclaiming moments of stillness can transform our spiritual, emotional, and mental well-being. She unpacks: Why boredom used to be a gift How technology keeps us spiritually distracted Learning to practice God’s presence in everyday moments Why the wilderness is not weakness, but strength The difference between solitude and isolation How internal noise impacts peace, anxiety, and emotional health Why silence is essential for healing, clarity, and abiding in Christ This episode is both a conviction and an invitation: to slow down, reconnect with God, and create rhythms that cultivate peace instead of chaos. Key Takeaways Boredom Was Once Sacred Before smartphones and endless stimulation, boredom created space for creativity, imagination, reflection, and connection. Today, we often fill every quiet moment with scrolling, entertainment, or mental noise — missing opportunities to connect with God. God Is Present Beyond the Prayer Closet Tatum reflects on a revelation that changed her relationship with God: His presence isn’t confined to designated “quiet times.” Through the Holy Spirit, God is present while washing dishes, driving, making coffee, or watching children play. The Wilderness Is a Place of Strength Referencing Jesus in the wilderness, this episode reframes difficult seasons not as punishment or weakness, but as places where God’s strength is revealed most powerfully. Silence Is More Than External Quiet True silence includes: External silence (turning off noise and distractions) Internal silence (quieting worry, fantasies, overthinking, anxiety, and mental chatter) Solitude Is Healing Solitude is not isolation. It is intentional time with God where healing, self-awareness, conviction, and restoration take place. Discussion Topics from This Episode Practicing the presence of God in ordinary moments The emotional impact of constant stimulation Why high-achieving women often struggle with silence Internal criticism, perfectionism, and vulnerability Creating rhythms of rest instead of cycles of burnout How Jesus modeled retreat, prayer, and solitude Mentioned in This Episode The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry A powerful book exploring how hurry, distraction, and overload are shaping modern spiritual life — and practical ways to slow down and reconnect with God. Special Product Super Sale As Tatum prepares for a move, she discovered a limited inventory of some fan-favorite resources that are officially back while supplies last. These products have been sold out for quite some time and are being offered at deeply discounted prices — once they’re gone, they’re gone. Featured Products God Is My CEO Prayer Journal: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop A guided prayer and reflection journal designed to help Christian entrepreneurs strengthen their relationship with God while building in alignment with His will. Perfect for: Daily prayer and reflection Processing vision and strategy with God Cultivating intimacy and spiritual discipline Entrepreneurs seeking faith-centered leadership The Planner for Podcasters : https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop A strategic planning resource for podcasters and content creators who want to stay organized, consistent, and intentional with their podcast growth and content execution. Inside includes: Content planning tools Episode organization Goal-setting prompts Production workflow support 90-Day Devotional: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop A devotional created to help believers grow spiritually, stay anchored in faith, and build consistent time with God over the course of 90 days. Designed for: Daily encouragement Spiritual growth Building consistency in devotion time Strengthening faith through practical reflection Visit: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tatum is in the trenches of her first-year law school finals, so this week she's bringing back one of her most foundational episodes — and as she always says, when an oldie comes back around, trust that the Lord is bringing it back for a reason. Whether you've heard it before or this is your first time, this one is worth sitting with. In this episode, Tatum opens up about the early years of making God the CEO of her business and introduces a new series focused on the application of faith-driven entrepreneurship — not just the information, but the lived practice. Before diving into strategy, marketing, or business plans, she makes the case that we have to start with sobriety: freeing ourselves from the influences, distractions, and cultural pressures that pull our focus away from the Lord and onto the metrics of the world. In this episode, Tatum covers: Why sobriety is the non-negotiable foundation before any business building can begin The story of how obedience during a season of stripping and pruning led to her most fruitful breakthroughs The moment she hit her first six-figure year — and why her reaction to it changed everything How entrepreneurship can become its own kind of intoxication A word for anyone being called to pioneer something new, even when it feels lonely and irrational The 5 Substances to Detox From: Success culture and performance pressure Digital noise and comparison Mixed mentorship Materialism and metrics-based validation Over-independence Scriptures Referenced: 1 Peter 5:8 1 Thessalonians 5:6–8 Mark 14:38 Action Step: Download the free Clarity Cleanse guide (linked in show notes) — a month-long detox plan with weekly focus areas, scriptures, action steps, and prayer points to help you build the sober, focused foundation your business needs. Join the Society — Tatum's membership community for Christian women growing in life, faith, and business. Weekly prayer calls, Bible studies, daily devotionals, and a community of women walking this out with you. Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, we continue our book club series on The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, wrapping up the final chapter of Part Two and covering the intermission that sets the stage for Part Three. We open with one of the most convicting observations in the book: Jesus was rarely — if ever — in a hurry. Through stories like the raising of Lazarus and the healing of Jairus's daughter, the author paints a picture of a Savior who was fiercely present, completely unhurried, and never agitated by interruption. That kind of peace has a name we hear a lot today: a regulated central nervous system. In this episode, we break down what that actually means, share some eye-opening data about how many of us are functioning in a state of chronic stress, and then make the case that Jesus didn't just model a regulated nervous system — He modeled something that surpasses the very standard modern science is striving toward. We then dig into the concept of margin — the space between your load and your limits — and get practical about what it looks like to actually build it into your life. From contingency planning and backup childcare to protecting your mornings and setting an evening shutdown time, this episode gets real about what margin looks like for busy women wearing multiple hats. From there, we explore the trellis metaphor: just as a trellis gives a vine the structure it needs to grow and bear fruit, a rule of life gives your walk with Jesus the structure it needs to actually take root. We talk about why Jesus must be the center — not career, not motherhood, not success — and how the structures we build either support or undermine that priority. We close out with the intermission from the book, which sets up Part Three by distinguishing between discipline and spiritual discipline — and why the latter gives you access to a power that willpower alone simply cannot reach. In this episode: Why Jesus is the ultimate example of a regulated nervous system (and then some) What nervous system dysregulation actually looks like — and the stats that prove it's a public health issue The difference between a full schedule and a hurried one How to create a contingency plan so that life's interruptions don't blow up your whole week What a "rule of life" is and why it started in the monastery, not Silicon Valley The trellis metaphor and why structure isn't the enemy of freedom — it's the path to it How to approach the four Gospels the same way you'd read a biography of someone you admire Willpower vs. spiritual discipline: why one gets you so far and the other gets you to Jesus 📖 The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer — grab your copy Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, Tatum unpacks the difference between selfish ambition and godly ambition, challenging listeners to examine not just what they are pursuing, but why. Through personal reflection, biblical teaching, and practical examples, she reveals how easy it is to drift into misalignment—even with good intentions. This conversation calls you into deeper self-awareness, Spirit-led decision-making, and true wholeness, emphasizing that sustainable success in both life and business must be rooted in God. Key Takeaways Ambition itself is not wrong, but its source determines whether it is aligned with God. Self-awareness is critical for identifying the true motivations behind your goals. External success can hide internal misalignment. Godly ambition is led by the Holy Spirit, not by outcomes, validation, or trends. Your definition of success will evolve as you grow in faith and maturity. True alignment requires healing from the brokenness that often drives achievement. Scriptures Referenced Philippians 2:3 (ESV): Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. James 3:13–16: A warning against selfish ambition, describing it as earthly and leading to disorder. Galatians 5:22–23: The fruit of the Spirit as evidence of a Spirit-led life. What is Selfish Ambition? Selfish ambition is a drive rooted in: Ego Pride Comparison Control Brokenness Desire for validation It is not always obvious. It can begin with good intentions but becomes misaligned when God is no longer the source. What is Godly Ambition? Godly ambition is: Spirit-led Rooted in obedience Focused on serving God and others Centered on bringing God glory rather than personal recognition The defining factor is what is driving your decisions: the Holy Spirit or your desire for results. The Subtle Shift from Godly to Selfish Ambition A key example shared in the episode illustrates how this shift can happen: You begin in obedience and full dependence on God You experience growth and positive results Results slow down or decline You begin seeking external solutions (trends, algorithms, validation) Your source shifts from God to performance This shift is often gradual and difficult to detect without intentional self-examination. How to Course Correct When you feel frustrated or see changes in results: Pause instead of reacting impulsively Take your emotions to God honestly Ask: Did I get off track? Is there something you want me to change? Wait for His response Obey, whether He says to adjust or remain consistent The goal is to remain aligned with God, not to chase outcomes. The Root Issue: Brokenness Many forms of ambition are driven by unresolved issues such as: A need for validation Fear of lack or instability Desire for control Past wounds or trauma Without healing, it becomes difficult to sustain a God-centered approach to success. Measuring Your Motivation: The Fruit of the Spirit Use the fruit of the Spirit as a diagnostic tool: Love Joy Peace Patience Kindness Goodness Faithfulness Gentleness Self-control If these are absent in your process or decision-making, it may indicate misalignment. Action Step: Fast and Surrender Tatum encourages listeners to: Fast from 6 AM to 6 PM (if medically able) Spend intentional time with God Be honest about fears, control, and disappointment Invite God to address the root causes of misalignment This is not about behavior modification but heart transformation. Reflection Questions What is driving my ambition right now? Am I seeking God’s approval or external validation? Where have I prioritized outcomes over obedience? What unresolved issues may be influencing my goals? Final Encouragement God is not focused on your performance—He is focused on your heart. Seasons of slowing down, stagnation, or even decline are not punishment. They are often invitations to return to alignment, deepen intimacy with God, and rebuild from a place of wholeness Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club discussion of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, shifting from diagnosing the problem of hurry to uncovering the solution. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, burnt out, or stuck in a cycle of doing too much, this episode is your invitation to something deeper: the lifestyle of Jesus. We explore what it truly means to follow Jesus—not just in belief, but in daily practice—and how embracing an apprenticeship mindset can transform your pace, your peace, and your purpose. Key Takeaways: 1. The Answer Isn’t More Time—It’s a New Way to Live We often think the solution to overwhelm is more hours in the day. But more time doesn’t fix a misaligned life—it just gives us more space to stay busy. True freedom comes from reordering our lives around God, not productivity. 2. You’re Not Just a Believer—You’re an Apprentice To follow Jesus is to apprentice under Him: Be with Jesus Become like Jesus Do what He would do This perspective shifts your posture from control to humility, from striving to learning. 3. Your Life Reflects Your Lifestyle If you’re experiencing: Anxiety Burnout Constant stress Disconnection from God …it’s not random. Your current systems and rhythms are producing those results. “Every system is perfectly designed to get the results that it gets.” 4. You Can’t Want Jesus’ Life Without Adopting His Lifestyle Many of us want: His peace His clarity His joy …but we’re not willing to live how He lived. Following Jesus is not compartmentalized—it’s a full-life transformation, not just Sunday behavior or spiritual moments. 5. Burnout Is a Sign You’re Living Outside of God’s Design Burnout isn’t just exhaustion—it’s a signal. It often means you’ve made your dwelling place somewhere God never intended. The invitation? Come back home. 6. Stop Praying Your Will—Start Seeking His A powerful personal story highlights how easy it is to pray what we want instead of surrendering to God’s will. When you approach God as an apprentice—not the one in charge—you: Release control Stay open to correction Avoid unnecessary frustration and confusion 7. Self-Awareness Is a Spiritual Discipline Slowing down enough to: Notice your reactions Evaluate your routines Check your alignment …is key to transformation. Self-awareness allows you to course correct in real time and grow in spiritual maturity. 8. Jesus Doesn’t Offer Escape—He Offers Equipment Life is hard. That’s not changing. But instead of removing the weight, Jesus teaches us how to carry it differently: With Him At His pace With His peace An easy life isn’t promised—but an easy yoke is. Practical Application: This week, begin living like an apprentice: Pause throughout your day and ask: “What would Jesus do?” Set reminders to check in with your thoughts, reactions, and stress levels Pay attention to moments where you feel rushed, anxious, or out of alignment Surrender areas where you’ve been forcing your will Scripture Highlight: Matthew 11:28–30 “Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest…” Final Thought: If you want the life of Jesus, you have to adopt the lifestyle of Jesus. This isn’t about doing more—it’s about living differently. Resources Mentioned: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club series on The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, stepping into Part 2: The Solution. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or like there aren’t enough hours in the day, this conversation will challenge the way you think about productivity, ambition, and success. Tatum shares a candid life update—navigating motherhood, law school, entrepreneurship, and a recent season of burnout—and how God is shifting her perspective on pace, priorities, and what success really means in this season. This episode centers on a powerful truth: the solution to an overbusy life is not more time, but a slower, more intentional life rooted in what actually matters. What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why more time will not fix your overwhelm How to simplify your business model without sacrificing success The difference between active income and asset-based wealth Why you do not have to follow grind culture to build a successful business How embracing your limitations can bring peace and clarity What it means to define success as pleasing God, not producing outcomes How surrendering control leads to true freedom Key Takeaways You do not have to be rushed to be rich or successful Every yes requires a thousand no’s—choose wisely Your capacity is limited, and that is by design God is not asking you to do everything, only what He assigned to you True success is obedience to God, not money, influence, or recognition Faith + Business Insight This episode explores the tension between potential and limitation. While we are made in the image of God and filled with purpose, we are still human and finite. Learning to accept both your potential and your limitations is essential to building a life and business that is sustainable, peaceful, and aligned with God’s will. Notable Quote “You don’t have to be rushed to be rich. You don’t have to be rushed to be successful.” Book Club Pick We’re reading: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer - https://amzn.to/3Obiks5 Mentioned in This Episode Anchored Media Studios: www.anchoredmediastudios.com Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum takes time to rest and recover while revisiting one of the most impactful teachings she’s shared: the God Math Formula. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or stuck in survival mode, this episode invites you to take a different approach. Instead of striving, multitasking, and trying to do everything, Tatum breaks down a faith-based framework that brings clarity, peace, and alignment. This episode is not about doing more. It is about doing what matters most and trusting God to handle the rest. What You’ll Learn Why survival mode requires deeper reflection, not quick fixes The difference between worldly peace and God’s peace How hustle culture and internalized stress are affecting women Why slowing down can feel uncomfortable and what God may be refining in that process The truth about multitasking versus multiplication The God Math Formula Consecration + Concentration = Multiplication Consecration (Your Responsibility) Setting your life apart for God through your daily decisions, habits, and priorities. Key Scriptures: Romans 12:1–2 1 Peter 1:15–16 Concentration (Your Responsibility) Maintaining focused, intentional attention on God’s will by eliminating distractions and staying aligned. Key Scripture: Matthew 4:1–11 Multiplication (God’s Responsibility) God expands what you offer Him beyond your natural capacity. Key Insight: Multitasking is not multiplication. Trying to do everything is stepping into a role that belongs to God. Biblical Examples of God Math in Action Mary, mother of Jesus: Her obedience positioned her to carry out God’s plan for salvation The Shunammite woman: Her generosity led to supernatural provision The disciples: Their obedience with limited resources led to abundance The widow of Zarephath: Her faith in scarcity resulted in overflow Practical Application Tatum outlines a realistic, faith-centered daily rhythm that includes: Starting the day with prayer, Scripture, and stillness Being intentional with family and relationships Working with focus and minimizing distractions Practicing gratitude throughout the day Prioritizing rest and restoration in the evening Key takeaway: Harmony is not about having more time. It is about being intentional with the time you already have. Key Takeaways Alignment is more important than activity Peace is not the absence of chaos but the presence of God Discipline is the key to sustainable transformation God multiplies what you surrender and steward well Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this inspiring episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Christian entrepreneur Tatum Temia answers listener questions about aligning ambition with God’s will, managing work-life harmony, and creating faith-based communities for women. She also shares a powerful testimony of her grandmother’s miraculous healing from stage four cancer, reminding listeners that God is faithful and sees every part of our lives. Whether you are a busy mom, entrepreneur, or professional, this episode is packed with practical guidance, spiritual encouragement, and real-life strategies to live a God-centered, purpose-driven life. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: 1. Miraculous Healing Testimony Tatum shares the story of her grandmother. Through faith, prayer, and God’s guidance, she is now in remission. This testimony highlights: The power of trusting God in difficult seasons How prayer and faith can bring peace and restoration Why God’s timing is perfect and how He works behind the scenes 2. Aligning Ambition with God’s Will Tatum answers a listener’s question about determining if their ambition is God-aligned. Key takeaways include: Pause and recalibrate: Avoid operating in hurry and burnout Examine the root of ambition: Is it fueled by brokenness or a spirit of excellence? Apply the God Math Formula: Consecration: Abide in God daily Concentration: Focus on what God assigns Multiplication: Experience supernatural results beyond your own efforts 3. Work-Life Harmony for Moms and Entrepreneurs Tatum addresses the challenges of balancing career, business, ministry, and family life. She advises: Take a hard stop to evaluate priorities and health Use your job as an investor: Save for your business or ministry Schedule time for spiritual growth: waking early, praying throughout the day Transition from surviving to savoring every moment with family and God 4. Building a Faith-Based Community for Women Trying to Conceive For women seeking support while navigating fertility journeys, Tatum provides tips on: Researching existing communities to understand needs and pain points Emphasizing peace, trust, and patience over anxiety Combining faith with practical steps like health, vitamins, or IVF guidance Using social media strategically to connect with your audience and grow community Actionable Steps from This Episode: Take a recalibration pause to evaluate the alignment of your ambition and priorities. Apply the God Math Formula in daily life to multiply your efforts spiritually and practically. Carve out dedicated time for prayer, ministry, or your business while keeping your career stable. Build or join a faith-based community that provides spiritual encouragement and practical resources. Savor your life: prioritize health, family, and God over constant productivity and achievement. Resources Mentioned: Previous episode: God Math Formula: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/1f420cff/god-math-the-spiritual-formula-every-busy-woman-needs Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week on Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum Temia dives deep into listener questions about balancing personal desires with God’s timing and navigating the complexities of Christian entrepreneurship. As we close out the first quarter of the year, this episode is a reminder to check in with your goals, your heart, and your faith. Tatum covers: Holding space for longings like marriage and motherhood without letting them consume your focus, even when God is calling you to pursue other seasons of life. Healthy ways to process disappointment and desire without shutting down emotionally or disassociating. The importance of enjoying your current season while preparing for future roles in life and leadership. Discerning action versus waiting in business: how to know when to move forward and when to sit and seek guidance from the Lord. The dwelling and abiding lifestyle—making God your constant dwelling place to cultivate peace, clarity, and confidence in your decisions. Real talk on the mental and spiritual challenges of Christian entrepreneurship and how to navigate the pressure, self-doubt, and decision paralysis with faith and wisdom. Whether you’re navigating personal desires, business growth, or both, this episode provides practical guidance and encouragement to live fully surrendered to God while pursuing your destiny. 💌 Have a question for Tatum? Email her at Tatum@TatumTemia.com and you might hear it answered on a future episode! Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue the book club discussion of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, exploring chapters 2 and 3. Tatum dives into the history of speed in modern culture and how technological advancement, shifting cultural values, and the rise of the attention economy have created a lifestyle of chronic busyness. From alarm clocks and the invention of the light bulb to smartphones and social media platforms, we unpack how the modern world has conditioned us to move faster, do more, and measure productivity by output rather than spiritual depth. But what is the real cost of this constant hurry? This episode challenges Christian entrepreneurs and busy believers to reconsider their definition of productivity, confront the hidden addiction to digital devices, and examine whether busyness is crowding out intimacy with God. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, constantly rushed, or spiritually disconnected despite being productive, this conversation will help you recognize the deeper root of the problem—and prepare you for the solutions coming in the next episode. In This Episode We Discuss Why hurry is considered the greatest enemy of the spiritual life The historical shift from natural rhythms to artificial schedules How the invention of the light bulb and industrial work culture changed sleep and productivity The cultural shift from leisure as wealth to busyness as status The decline of Sabbath practices in modern society How the digital age and smartphones fuel distraction and addiction The psychology behind the attention economy The concept of “hurry sickness” and its symptoms How constant busyness can damage our spiritual health Why redefining productivity is essential for believers Key Takeaways 1. Modern life is built around speed—not soul care. Historically, people lived according to natural rhythms—waking with the sun and resting after sunset. Today, alarm clocks, work schedules, and digital connectivity push us into an artificial pace that our bodies and spirits were never designed for. 2. Busyness has become a status symbol. Where wealth once meant leisure and rest, modern culture celebrates packed calendars, long work hours, and constant productivity. 3. Technology competes for your attention. Smartphones and social media platforms are intentionally designed to capture and keep your attention through dopamine-driven feedback loops. 4. Hurry isn’t just stressful—it’s spiritual. When our lives move too quickly, we lose the space required for reflection, prayer, and genuine connection with God. 5. Many of us are experiencing “hurry sickness.” This condition describes the constant feeling of being rushed, anxious about time, and trying to accomplish more in less time. Reflection Questions Take a moment to sit with these questions: Do you feel most productive only when you’re accomplishing tasks? Do you struggle to rest without feeling lazy or unproductive? Has busyness replaced intentional time with God? Could your pace of life be preventing you from hearing God clearly? Community Challenge: Digital Sabbath The episode proposes a powerful challenge inspired by the book: Turn off your phone for 24 hours. A digital Sabbath allows you to: Reset your mind Break compulsive phone habits Create space for rest and spiritual reflection Consider trying this with the Blessed + Bossed Up community and observe what shifts in your awareness and connection with God. What’s Coming Next This episode focuses on diagnosing the problem of hurry. In the next episode, we’ll begin exploring the practical solutions John Mark Comer presents for slowing down and restoring spiritual health in a fast-paced world. Resources Mentioned The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer: https://amzn.to/4aSvzql Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum kicks off the next book club series: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer. https://amzn.to/4c9jPAK This national bestseller, with over one million copies sold, presents a compelling spiritual and emotional case against hurry and challenges the culture of busyness that defines modern life. For ambitious women balancing business, motherhood, marriage, leadership, and personal growth, this conversation is both timely and necessary. Although originally planning to wait until after midterms, Tatum began rereading this book sooner because she recognized subtle signs of internal hurry resurfacing in her own life. This episode is not just a book discussion—it is a personal reset and an invitation for listeners to do the same. In this episode, she explores: Why high-achieving women are especially vulnerable to chronic overload What current research reveals about women, stress, burnout, and time poverty How busyness impacts cortisol levels, sleep, hormonal balance, and long-term health The invisible mental load many women carry daily The tension between ambition and contentment Why hurry is incompatible with love, joy, and peace The foundational question raised in the book: Who am I becoming? Drawing from both the book and her own experience in therapy, Tatum also shares practical tools that help interrupt internal hurry, including: Creating intentional transition time between responsibilities Practicing single-tasking instead of multitasking Scheduling real lunch breaks without scrolling Grounding exercises to regulate the nervous system Pausing in moments of rush to return to presence One of the central themes discussed in this episode is the idea that hurry is not merely a productivity issue—it is a spiritual formation issue. As the book argues, love, joy, and peace are core characteristics of apprenticeship to Jesus. Yet all three are incompatible with a life lived in constant speed. Presence is required for love. Stillness is required for joy. Margin is required for peace. Tatum challenges listeners to reflect deeply: Who are they becoming if nothing changes? Has hurry negatively impacted their marriage, parenting, friendships, or worship? Are they rushing toward a version of success they may not even like? Where has busyness quietly replaced intimacy with God? This episode also addresses a sobering reality: many Christians are not in danger of renouncing their faith—but of settling for a distracted, shallow version of it. The invitation is clear: eliminate hurry before it eliminates depth. Listeners are encouraged to grab a copy of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry and follow along as the book club continues in the next episode. Because building a successful life should never come at the cost of the soul. If this episode resonates, share it with another ambitious woman who needs permission—and accountability—to slow down. Tune in next week as the discussion continues. Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we’re having a sober, faith-centered conversation about artificial intelligence—what it is, how it already shows up in daily life, and how Christian entrepreneurs should engage with it wisely. What AI Is (and why you’re already using it) AI is software trained on data to predict, recommend, recognize, or generate without being told every step. It’s embedded in: Google search suggestions Autocorrect and text prediction YouTube/Netflix/Spotify recommendations Banking fraud alerts Email spam filters and inbox sorting Face ID, photo tagging, voice-to-text AI isn’t just ChatGPT—and it’s here to stay. The tension people feel Many people want AI’s benefits but feel cautious about trust, jobs, privacy, and misinformation. Others either avoid it completely or rely on it too heavily. The core boundary for believers Use AI for labor, not revelation. Don’t use AI to interpret scripture, replace prayer, or seek direction for what God told you to build. Use it for support work—drafting, organizing, brainstorming, or saving time—without replacing dependence on the Holy Spirit. AI can easily become an idol because it’s designed to learn you and feed you what you want. Why this is good news for entrepreneurs As AI content becomes overly polished, the market is shifting toward authentic, human-led content. People want real stories, real connection, and less perfection—meaning you don’t need “TV-level” production to show up and stand out. Practical ways to use AI wisely Draft captions, emails, descriptions, SEO Repurpose audio/video into clips Create basic graphics aligned to a brand guide Automate simple customer support/FAQs Streamline admin and back-office tasks Keep the human connection: respond, engage, and make sure your voice stays present. Closing encouragement Now is a great time to launch what God called you to—without perfection—while using AI as a tool with wisdom, restraint, and spiritual discernment. Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In the previous episode, we were supposed to wrap up The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley. After waking up at 3 a.m. to record a full 57-minute episode, the final 17 minutes didn’t save. Rather than end abruptly, this episode finishes the discussion properly. We conclude our book club conversation by examining two final spiritual markers of the Spirit-filled life: The Word of God Wisdom We also prepare for our next book club selection: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer. We will begin in about two weeks after midterms, so go ahead and grab your copy now. Marker #3: The Word of God Charles Stanley outlines three key reading principles that help believers live a Spirit-filled life. 1. Look for Principles, Not Just Promises Many believers are promise-centered, always searching for what God will do for them. But principles are more powerful for decision-making. A principle works like an equation: If you do A, expect B. If you ignore A, expect C. When you consistently study the Word, those principles become ingrained. You won’t need to pause life to search for answers. The Holy Spirit will bring truth to your mind in real time. For Christian entrepreneurs especially, this is critical. You must be able to: Make decisions quickly Maintain spiritual accuracy Move without paralysis That kind of discernment only comes when the Word is already in you. 2. Read with Context — Remain Neutral One of the most important themes of this episode is neutrality. Do not approach Scripture trying to get something out of it. Approach it to know Him. In an age of algorithms constantly feeding us what we already want to see, neutrality is difficult. But it is essential. Otherwise, we risk: Confusing digital marketing for confirmation Confusing algorithms for the Holy Spirit Reading our desires into the text instead of receiving what it actually says When you read neutrally, you allow the Word to confront you instead of you manipulating it to support what you already want. Neutrality produces peace, clarity, sensitivity, and maturity. If you approach Scripture asking, “How can I get God to work for me?” you will miss it. When you approach asking, “How can I be closer to Him?” everything changes. 3. Look for General Promises There are promises given to all believers for all time, including: Jesus’ promise not to leave us as orphans (John 14:18) Grace and mercy when we approach God (Hebrews 4:16) Strength for the weary (Isaiah 40:31) While God still speaks, He has already spoken extensively through Scripture. Personal revelation should always be filtered through biblical truth. Approaching the Word strictly from a mystical or subjective lens is dangerous. Spiritual maturity requires emotional maturity, restraint, and accountability. Marker #4: Wisdom The final spiritual marker of a Spirit-filled life is wisdom. The defining question: What is the wise thing for me to do? Wisdom exposes hidden motives. It shines light on greed, selfishness, pride, and lust. Wisdom goes beyond right and wrong. Something may not be sinful — but it may still not be wise. The Holy Spirit does not merely pull us away from sin. He keeps us far from the edge. Walking in Wisdom Examples discussed in this episode include: Disengaging instead of escalating when triggered Avoiding environments that may not be sinful but are not wise Listening to internal promptings before temptation escalates Leaving a social setting when wisdom says it is time to go The Spirit-filled life is not about seeing how close you can get to the line without crossing it. It is about walking wisely and staying far from the brink. The Three-Dimensional Wisdom Question When making decisions, ask: What is the wise thing to do in light of my past experience? What is the wise thing to do in light of my present situation? What is the wise thing to do in light of my future hopes and calling? The Holy Spirit takes into account your history, your vulnerabilities, and your destiny. When He prompts you, it is for protection. Ignoring wisdom can have lasting consequences. Final Charge If you are not reading your Bible daily, start now. Buy a translation you understand. Read a little every day. Through daily reading, you give the Holy Spirit access to your mind and heart — access necessary for transformation. Next Book Club Pick The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry – John Mark Comer We will begin in approximately two weeks. Grab your copy and begin reading so you are ready when we start. Additional Bible Study Resources Recommended by Charles Stanley 30 Days to Understanding the Bible – Max Anders How to Read the Bible for All Its Worth – Gordon D. Fee & Douglas Stewart How to Study the Bible – James Braga How to Understand Your Bible – T. Norton Sterrick Talk Through the Bible – Bruce Wilkinson & Kenneth Boa Living by the Book: The Art and Science of Reading the Bible – Howard Hendricks & William Hendricks Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of the Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club, we continue wrapping up The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley by exploring one of the most important markers of living in step with the Holy Spirit: the Word of God. If you want to know what the Holy Spirit is saying, you must know what He has already said. The Bible is not just a collection of stories—it is the Holy Spirit’s thoughts on paper. It is objective, timeless truth that anchors us when our emotions, desires, and circumstances try to pull us in different directions. In this episode, I share why Scripture is the most reliable way to discern God’s will, the difference between subjective and objective study, and how to approach the Word in a way that produces spiritual maturity. I also share personal reflections on discipleship, parenting, and how God uses everyday moments to redirect us back to His truth. We also announce our next Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club pick: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer—a powerful follow-up that will help us establish a pace of life that keeps us aligned with the Spirit. Key Takeaways The Bible is the Holy Spirit’s most objective tool for revealing God’s will Scripture is not just stories—it is a living, relevant, and authoritative guide for our lives Many believers rely too heavily on subjective feelings instead of objective truth Spiritual maturity requires balancing personal application with disciplined, objective study Principles in Scripture provide timeless guidance for decision-making Eliminating hurry is essential to maintaining sensitivity to the Holy Spirit Discipleship begins at home and in everyday conversations Scripture References 2 Peter 1:20–21 — Scripture inspired by the Holy Spirit Galatians 6:7 — You reap what you sow Proverbs 13:20 — The influence of your associations Proverbs 12:1 — Correction produces wisdom Proverbs 12:19 — Truth endures 2 Corinthians 9:6 — Generosity produces increase Philippians 4:19 — God provides for His people Book Club Announcement: Our Next Read Our next Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club selection is: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer This book addresses one of the greatest threats to our spiritual sensitivity: hurry. It will help us establish rhythms that allow us to remain emotionally healthy, spiritually alive, and aligned with God’s pace. Get your copy and read along with us. https://a.co/d/0cBAB6G0 Resources Mentioned The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley: https://a.co/d/0cBAB6G0 The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer https://a.co/d/0cBAB6G0 Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, Tatum shares a timely message about building spiritual muscle memory—the discipline of training your spirit to respond automatically to God, especially in seasons of pressure, warfare, and transition. Just as physical muscle memory develops through consistent repetition, spiritual muscle memory develops through daily prayer, studying the Word, obedience, and intentional separation from environments that weaken your spiritual strength. This episode serves as both an encouragement and a call to action for those who know they are being stretched, tested, and prepared for greater responsibility. Tatum explains why spiritual consistency—not emotional intensity—is what sustains you through seasons of elevation and opposition. If you have been feeling pressure in multiple areas of your life, this episode will help you understand what is happening, how to respond, and how to strengthen your spiritual posture so you can stand firm in what God has called you to do. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: What spiritual muscle memory is and why it matters Why spiritual disciplines must become automatic, not occasional How consistent prayer strengthens your spiritual resilience The difference between repetition and quality repetition in spiritual growth Why studying and understanding scripture deeply increases its effectiveness in your life How environments and habits can either strengthen or weaken your spiritual position The importance of accountability in maintaining spiritual discipline How to proactively prepare for seasons of elevation and opposition Key Concepts Discussed Spiritual Muscle Memory Training your spirit to respond to God automatically through consistent prayer, scripture study, and obedience. Quality Repetition Not just hearing the Word, but studying it, writing it down, understanding it, and applying it so it becomes embedded within you. Proactive Spiritual Discipline Building strength before crisis occurs so your response is rooted in truth, not emotion. Separation and Protection Removing yourself from environments and habits that weaken your spiritual clarity and authority. Accountability and Spiritual Covering Strengthening your spiritual consistency through prayer partnerships and community. Scripture Referenced Ephesians 6:13–17 — The Armor of God James 5:16 — “The prayer of the righteous is powerful and effective.” Ephesians 6:12 — Spiritual warfare is not against flesh and blood Practical Ways to Build Spiritual Muscle Memory Pray daily and consistently Study and write down scripture to deepen understanding Put on the armor of God intentionally Remove yourself from environments that weaken your discipline Establish accountability through prayer partnerships or community Meditate on the Word so it becomes your automatic response Reflection Questions What spiritual disciplines have become inconsistent in your life? Where is God calling you to strengthen your spiritual foundation? What environments, habits, or distractions may be weakening your spiritual clarity? What daily practices can you implement to build spiritual muscle memory? Resources Mentioned BibleHub.com BibleStudyTools.com GotQuestions.org A study Bible for deeper context and understanding Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum reframes commitment from a biblical perspective. Rather than defining commitment as discipline, motivation, or consistency, she defines it as spiritual restraint—the willingness to restrict your freedom of action in order to fully submit to God’s way. This teaching explores why commitment is a distinguishing mark of believers and how inconsistent restraint can quietly lead us from dependence on the Holy Spirit into self-sufficiency. Episode Highlights A biblical definition of commitment as restraint Why commitment is a marker of spiritual maturity How good intentions can still lead to compromise The difference between good ideas and God ideas Why God cares about how we start, continue, and finish Biblical Foundation: Asa and Jehoshaphat (2 Chronicles) Tatum examines the lives of King Asa and King Jehoshaphat to show how waning commitment and partial obedience produced long-term consequences. Both kings were generally faithful but inconsistent in restraint: Asa obeyed God early in his reign but later relied on alliances rather than the Lord. Jehoshaphat followed God in major decisions but compromised in daily and strategic ones. Their stories reveal that partial obedience and strategic compromise can open doors we never intended to open. The Five Core Competencies of Commitment Commitment to the Lord should be distinguishable. These five competencies serve as markers of true spiritual commitment: A Clear and Clean Heart Commitment begins with the inner condition of the heart. Unaddressed pride, bitterness, anger, and self-reliance hinder obedience. Scriptures: Matthew 5:8; 1 Samuel 16:7 Courage Courage is the spiritual strength to obey God despite fear, risk, or opposition. Obedience often requires moving forward without certainty. Scripture: Joshua 1:9 Diligence Diligence is steady, faithful obedience over time. Longevity in calling, business, and ministry is built on faithfulness, not motivation. Scripture: Proverbs 21:5 Precision Precision means doing exactly what God said—no more and no less. Dependence on God is required to walk out assignments with accuracy. Contentment Contentment is an inner sufficiency rooted in trust in God’s sovereignty, independent of external circumstances. Scriptures: Philippians 4:11–13; 1 Timothy 6:6–8 Faith and Human Behavior Research shows that commitment bridges the gap between intention and action. Many people struggle not because they lack desire, but because they lack commitment. This biblical framework for commitment not only produces consistency in action, but also spiritual fruit, deeper intimacy with God, and alignment with His will. Closing Thought Commitment is not about productivity alone. It is about pleasing the Father, finishing the assignment, and stewarding the life God entrusted to us. If this episode blessed you, please leave a five-star review. Thank you for listening to Blessed and Bossed Up. Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club discussion of The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley, wrapping up Part Three of the book. These final chapters focus on the spiritual markers the Holy Spirit uses to confirm God’s will—and today’s conversation dives into the first two: peace and the conscience. Tatum unpacks why peace is often the first and clearest indicator that the Holy Spirit is either affirming or resisting a decision. Through a powerful story from Charles Stanley’s own ministry—where waiting on God led to a debt-free miracle—this episode challenges the tendency to panic, self-rely, or rationalize disobedience when God seems silent. The episode also includes several personal testimonies illustrating how the absence or presence of peace has guided major life decisions, from entrepreneurship and ministry to relationships and family choices. These stories highlight that spiritual maturity is not a prerequisite for the Holy Spirit to lead—He speaks from the very beginning of our walk with God. In the second half of the episode, the discussion turns to Stanley’s second marker: the conscience. While acknowledging the biblical framework presented in the book, Tatum offers honest reflection and thoughtful critique, questioning whether the conscience should be treated as a distinct marker separate from the Holy Spirit’s work of renewing the mind. This portion of the conversation invites listeners into deeper discernment, encouraging them to study Scripture, pray intentionally, and test what resonates with the Spirit. The episode closes with practical reflection questions from the book to help listeners evaluate decisions they may be facing—especially when peace seems unclear or external advice conflicts with inner conviction. This episode is an invitation to slow down, listen closely, and trust that the Holy Spirit is actively leading—even when His direction doesn’t make logical sense Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today’s episode is a special one—Tatum sits down with Raevyn Hokett, a longtime friend and fan-favorite guest who first entered Tatum’s life as her business coach back in 2014, helping her transition from employee to full-time entrepreneur. Their relationship has grown over the years into genuine friendship (Tatum even officiated Raevyn and her husband Tim’s wedding!), and in this conversation they go deep on what it really means to build a legacy God’s way. Together, they unpack legacy and longevity in entrepreneurship, how to steward influence and resources, and why “doing business God’s way” often includes wilderness seasons that teach dependence, humility, and true alignment. Want to watch the interview? This episode is also available on YouTube (link in the show notes). In This Episode, We Talk About Why Raevyn is an OG guest and always a listener favorite What legacy looks like when you’re building with eternity in mind The difference between being self-made vs. submitted to God How success without God can become a “cocktail for danger” Learning to trust God in manna seasons—daily provision and dependency When obedience doesn’t look like immediate overflow The moment God told Raevyn to shut down a lucrative coaching business How God uses closed doors as protection (including a major 2020 “dodged bullet”) How spiritual gifts (especially prophecy + discernment) protect and guide in business Why business models must evolve—and how God leads transitions ahead of time Guarding your gates: distraction, comparison, AI “busy work,” and spiritual compromise The power of abiding—stillness, hearing God, and resisting hustle culture Resource Mentioned + Listener Discount Raevyn is currently offering Rich Disciples Academy, specifically the Calling to Cash Flow Starter Kit, designed to help believers turn their God-given calling into sustainable income. Blessed + Bossed Up listeners get 50% off with code: BLESSED (Link: https://stan.store/richdisciples/p/the-calling-to-cashflow-starter-kit) Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, the host continues the book club series with The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley, covering Chapters 13 and 14, which focus on the Holy Spirit’s role in guidance, decision-making, sensitivity, and neutrality before God. The episode opens with an invitation to the Clarity Reset, a free two-week challenge inside The Society, designed to help participants realign their capacity, priorities, and spiritual focus by slowing down rather than adding more. Episode Highlights: Why many people struggle due to lack of clarity—not discipline or work ethic How busyness and goal-driven living can dull spiritual sensitivity The Holy Spirit as a guide, not a controller Four key truths about the Holy Spirit: He guides He is trustworthy He is God’s mouthpiece to believers The Holy Spirit speaks Real-life examples of Spirit-led guidance in parenting, career decisions, and resisting distractions Why God cares about both major and seemingly small decisions The importance of recognizing and trusting how the Holy Spirit communicates personally Chapter 14 Focus: The Principle of Neutrality Why God often remains silent when believers approach Him with fixed agendas The danger of asking God to bless plans already made How emotional attachment can distort discernment Why worship helps cultivate neutrality and clarity How misplaced faith in promises God never made leads to disappointment The connection between neutrality, obedience, and peace Key Takeaway: Clarity comes from sensitivity, and sensitivity grows when believers approach God with a neutral heart—willing to release their own agendas and fully submit to His will. Resources Mentioned: The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley: https://amzn.to/45Jzcf6 The Clarity Reset (free two-week challenge inside The Society): thesocietychallenge.com Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, I’m joined by my friend and podcast fave Kristen Hopkins Vincent—and yes, we’re talking about the Vincent part today! Kristen returns with powerful updates on her life (she’s a wife and a mom now!) and on the incredible work happening through Black SEL. We dig into Kristen’s transition from Dangers of the Mind to Black SEL, why culturally-rooted social and emotional learning is essential for Black communities, and what it looks like to build a mission-driven organization with radical obedience to God. Kristen shares moments where obedience didn’t make sense—like moving forward with a major conference during a hurricane—and how God confirmed the vision through provision, research, and undeniable fruit. We also talk about the very real emotions that come up when you’re following God’s timing: shame, guilt, feeling unseen, and learning how to embrace seasons of being hidden. And Kristen’s testimony around marriage and motherhood is such a needed reminder: it’s not too late, and God is always intentional. Before we get into it: Kristen and her husband received the Presidential Lifetime Achievement Award—and she forgot to mention it in the conversation because that’s what happens when you’re focused on obedience and doing the Lord’s work. In this episode, we cover: What Black SEL is and why it’s necessary Kristen’s transition from Dangers of the Mind to launching a nonprofit The 5 core competencies of social-emotional learning (and how Black SEL frames them) Why SEL must be culturally affirming to truly serve Black students and communities Building “God’s way” vs. building in your own might The difference between a “me” assignment and a “we” assignment Navigating shame, guilt, and the pressure to be seen Seasons where God hides you—and why that protection matters Kristen’s hurricane conference testimony and how God made the way The research that revealed how little SEL scholarship centers Black communities Waiting on God for marriage and motherhood—and what it means to pray for alignment with your assignment A word for the woman juggling purpose, business, love, and obedience “The position of your mind determines the posture of your life” Connect with Kristen + Support Black SEL Visit: BlackSEL.org Donate + learn more about the mission and programming Get involved / volunteer (especially if you’re in North Carolina) Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this bonus episode, we officially pick back up our book club read of The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley after pausing in Q4 due to major life transitions, including starting law school and welcoming a new baby. The goal now is simple: finish the book together and apply it practically as we move into a new year. If you are new to the book club, all previous episodes are linked in the show notes, along with the link to purchase the book. This remains one of my top Christian books of all time and one I believe should be reread regularly, especially at the beginning of the year. Today’s Focus: Chapter 11 — Doing God’s Work God’s Way While this episode technically covers Chapters 11 and 12, the primary focus is Chapter 11. Chapter 12 largely reiterates themes already covered earlier in the book regarding the Holy Spirit, so today’s discussion centers on what it truly looks like to build, work, and live by God’s Spirit rather than our own strength. The chapter opens with Zechariah 4:6–7: “Not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit, says the Lord of hosts.” Using the story of Zerubbabel rebuilding the temple, Charles Stanley reminds us that: God knows we will face opposition God does not always remove obstacles God prepares us instead Self-sufficiency is often the greatest opposition This scripture is a critical anchor for anyone building a business, pursuing goals, or stepping into God-ordained work. No Separation Between Spiritual and Secular Work Colossians 3:23–24 reminds us that “whatever you do” is service to the Lord. God does not divide life into sacred and secular categories. Your job, business, career, and daily responsibilities are all part of your calling. Even in environments where faith cannot be openly expressed, excellence, humility, integrity, and Spirit-dependence still glorify God. Your work ethic and posture can be a bridge to someone who may never step into a church. Two Ways to Approach God’s Work Doing God’s work in the flesh looks like: relying on skill, experience, influence, and strategy planning first and asking God to bless it later measuring success by numbers, money, or visibility operating in stress, pressure, and control Doing God’s work by the Spirit looks like: beginning with dependency hearing from God before planning remaining flexible and surrendered allowing God to receive the glory God’s work done God’s way carries an unmistakable mark. It produces transformation, not just emotional stimulation or surface-level success. Five Indicators You’re Doing God’s Work God’s Way According to Charles Stanley, Spirit-led work is marked by: Knowing the work will fail if God does not intervene Seeing God as your only true source Looking for evidence of the Spirit’s intervention Living without chronic stress Spending more time thanking God than asking Him If these are not currently descriptive of you, that is not condemnation—it is an invitation to course-correct. Final Encouragement This episode is especially timely for the beginning of the year, when many of us are setting goals and making plans. If you started the year operating in the flesh, now is the time to bring those plans back to God, repent of self-sufficiency, and realign your posture. Write these five indicators down. Keep Zechariah 4:6 somewhere visible. Check yourself often and intentionally choose to do God’s work God’s way. We have two more bonus episodes to finish the book before moving on to our next book club pick. Thank you for listening to another episode of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast. Previous episodes: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/39405540/the-joy-youve-been-missing-starts-with-the-holy-spirit https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/3255ebb2/the-holy-spirit-is-not-an-it-or-a-ghost https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/20f3c1c7/faith-over-formula https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/4df616ba/abiding-over-achieving https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/2213e340/the-faith-factor https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/28425033/keeping-in-step-with-the-spirit Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to the first episode of 2026—and the 9-year anniversary year of Blessed + Bossed Up! In this special New Year kickoff, Tatum opens with prayer, gratitude, and a powerful reflection on what God has taught her through nine years of consistent podcasting and nine years of full-time entrepreneurship (11 years as an entrepreneur overall). This episode is part celebration, part reset, and part practical mentorship: nine lessons to help you build what God called you to build—with skill, strategy, and spiritual sensitivity. In This Episode, You’ll Hear A New Year prayer + encouragement for anyone coming out of a hard 2025 A thank-you message to listeners who’ve supported the show over the years Why year 10 is a big deal—and what may be coming next (YouTube + format experiments) An invitation to join The Society (with a free trial) and what’s being added in 2026 The core teaching: 9 lessons from 9 years of entrepreneurship and podcasting Church Announcements + Updates 1) Subscribe on YouTube Tatum shares that she’s not committing to a full video podcast, but you can expect more video elements in 2026: YouTube-exclusive episodes that may also be added to the podcast feed Some podcast episodes recorded live More experimentation with format as the landscape continues shifting Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TatumTemia 2) Join The Society (Free Trial + New 2026 Modules) Tatum invites you to activate a free 2-week trial in The Society, the membership community created for Christian entrepreneurs who want a space where they don’t have to “leave Jesus out” or “leave entrepreneurship out.” New for 2026: She’s bringing her former coaching program, She Is Uncompromising Executive Leadership Training, into The Society—broken into monthly modules (about 12 total). Topics include operations, marketing, business planning, strategic planning, and accounting (modules taught by her CPA) The legal module will NOT be included (permission was for the original program only) Membership is $19.99/month, and the first module drops end of January Link to join: blessedandbossedupsociety.com Leave a 5-star review for the 9-year anniversary—share what this podcast has meant to you Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025. In this continuation of the Bible on Business series, Tatum walks through Acts 16:6–10 to illustrate how critical it is for Christian entrepreneurs to embrace mobility and flexibility when building a business God’s way. Using Paul’s second missionary journey as a framework, this episode explores what it looks like to make strategic plans while remaining fully open to divine redirection. If you’re someone who knows you’re called but keeps facing closed doors, delays, or redirections that don’t make sense, this message is for you. Tatum speaks to the emotional and spiritual tension of following God with excellence while trusting Him to guide every step—even when plans change. She also shares a personal story about obeying the Holy Spirit with no confirmation and how that decision ultimately protected her and her family. This episode will shift your mindset around delays, reframe how you view closed doors, and help you move forward with peace and confidence. Key Takeaways A closed door is not failure—it can be divine redirection. The Holy Spirit often leads us as we move, not before. Flexibility and mobility are vital for kingdom entrepreneurs. Being spiritual is not the same as being Spirit-led. Obedience does not always come with external confirmation. The people God is calling you to serve are already prepared to receive you. Scripture Focus Acts 16:6–10 (ESV and The Message) Proverbs 16:9 Romans 8:14 Galatians 5:25 This Episode is For You If: You are clear about your calling but uncertain about next steps. You’ve experienced unexpected closed doors and felt discouraged. You struggle to distinguish between faith and fear in business decisions. You are tired of waiting for external confirmation before obeying God. You want to operate in peace rather than anxiety as you build your business. Topics Covered Strategic planning vs. spiritual discernment What to do when you face delays, pivots, or redirections The importance of maintaining spiritual rhythm in business How over-attachment to your vision can block divine movement The role of fear and anxiety in clouding discernment How obedience leads to favor and alignment with your ideal clients Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025. In this continuation of our Bible on Business series, we dive deeper into the process of making Holy Spirit-led business decisions. Picking up from Part 1 (based on Acts 8), today’s discussion focuses on Acts 13:1-4 and how divine strategy and clarity are birthed from a lifestyle of worship, fasting, and consistent submission to God. Tatum also shares critical biblical principles for discerning the spirit behind those who claim to be sent by God, offering practical steps to avoid deception and remain anchored in the truth. Key Points: Context of Acts 13: Shift from Jerusalem to Antioch, highlighting the transition from Peter’s leadership to Paul’s. Divine Strategy is Birthed from Worship and Fasting: Barnabas and Saul’s commissioning came in the middle of an existing posture of worship, not a strategic session seeking next steps. Application: Do not seek God only for strategy—pursue a lifestyle of submission, intimacy, and service. Beware of Misaligned Spiritual Leadership: Many modern Christian entrepreneurs and believers are spiritually "thirsty," making them vulnerable to deception. Importance of properly discerning who lays hands on you or influences your spiritual walk and business decisions. Principles for Discerning Spiritual Leadership: Test their confession of Jesus (1 John 4:1-3). Test the fruit of their life (Matthew 7:15-20). Test alignment with Scripture (Galatians 1:8-9; Isaiah 8:20). Test through the witness of the Holy Spirit (John 16:13). Practical Application: Ask key questions: Does this person exalt the true Jesus or themselves? Does their life consistently produce holy fruit? Are their teachings aligned fully with Scripture? Does the Holy Spirit bear witness within you regarding their message and conduct? Take your time before accepting any prophetic word or impartation. It is wise to "wait and see" rather than rushing based on emotions. Personal Story: Tatum shares her own journey of being patient during a wilderness season and how God’s deposits led to the launch of Anchored Media and her continued success, underscoring the power of patience and submission. Resources Mentioned: The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley – [Grab your copy here] https://a.co/d/cBARYuE Bible references: Acts 13:1-4, 1 John 4:1-3, Matthew 7:15-20, Galatians 1:8-9, Isaiah 8:20, John 16:13 Call to Action: Reflect: Are you seeking God’s hand or His heart first? Evaluate: Apply the principles of spiritual discernment shared today to your current business community and spiritual influences. Prepare: Join the Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club as we start The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley. The journey to spirit-led entrepreneurship continues. Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025. In today’s episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our Bible on Business series with a deep dive into what it looks like to make strategic business decisions led by the Holy Spirit. Drawing from Acts 8:26–40, Tatum unpacks the story of Philip and the Ethiopian eunuch to reveal how obedience to God—even when it seems illogical—can produce generational and global impact. Tatum also shares a powerful testimony about Anchored Media Studios being awarded the 2025 Peerspace Open Doors Award and reflects on the importance of celebrating wins, even when they don’t directly reflect financial gain. With personal insight and biblical application, this episode gives you practical tools to discern God's voice, remain obedient in seasons of uncertainty, and be led by the Spirit in every decision you make. What You’ll Learn: Why Spirit-led strategy always outperforms worldly business tactics The biblical context and business application of Acts 8 How to know if what you're hearing is truly from God What to do when your platform, profits, or progress feel like they’re shrinking The power of journaling and intentional reflection in building spiritual sensitivity Why one act of obedience can change nations How Tatum is applying these lessons in her own businesses and platform Resources Mentioned: Book Club Pick: The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley: https://amzn.to/4ji32MG Episode referenced: Testimony of building Anchored Media Studios https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/24590588/faith-endurance-and-eight-years-of-gods-grace Visit: www.blessedandbossedup.com to search episode topics and listen to past shows Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025. In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our Bible on Business series by diving into the significance of strategic timing. Tatum unpacks the powerful lessons from Acts 2, examining how the Lord orchestrated the perfect moment for Pentecost and how this applies to our business and leadership journeys. She discusses why waiting on God’s timing is crucial, how to avoid premature leadership, and how divine strategy ensures maximum impact. Through the transformation of Peter, the example of Chick-fil-A’s success, and personal reflections on her own journey, Tatum emphasizes the importance of trusting God's plan. If you’re in a season of waiting or feeling impatient about your business or calling, this episode will encourage and challenge you to surrender to God's divine orchestration. Key Takeaways: God’s Timing Ensures Maximum Impact: Pentecost happened at the exact right moment to maximize the spread of the gospel. Likewise, waiting on God's timing in your business will lead to greater impact. The Right People Will Be in Place When It's Time: God gathers the right audience, customers, and community when the timing aligns with His plan. Strategic Preparation Precedes Breakthrough: Just as Peter had to go through a transformation process, we must embrace personal and professional development while waiting for God’s move. Sudden Breakthroughs Are Often Years in the Making: From Jesus preparing 30 years for a 3-year ministry to Chick-fil-A’s 20-year foundation before expansion, major success takes time and patience. Avoid Premature Leadership & Decision-Making: Acting ahead of God’s plan can lead to consequences. Learning to wait well is key to success in both business and faith. Scriptures Mentioned: Acts 2:1-5 – The divine timing of Pentecost Leviticus 23:15-16 – The significance of the Feast of Weeks Deuteronomy 16:16 – The biblical foundation for gathering at Pentecost Matthew 16:16-23 – Peter’s faith and spiritual immaturity John 18:10-11 – Peter’s rash decision-making Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Before we get into today’s episode, I want to let you know that the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast is currently on a brief break as I reset, refocus, and prepare for what’s next in this new season. While we’re away, I’ll be sharing powerful sessions, teachings, and listener favorites from our community to continue pouring into you. Today’s replay is one of those sessions. Enjoy, and I pray it blesses you right where you are. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Key lessons from the book of Isaiah and its relevance to our daily lives. How patterns of behavior like fear, self-reliance, and worldly influences keep us from fully depending on God. The concept of the habit loop and how it shapes our actions. Practical strategies to disrupt unhealthy habits and replace them with faith-driven behaviors. Scripture Focus: Isaiah 30:21 (NLT): “Your own ears will hear him. Right behind you a voice will say, ‘This is the way you should go,’ whether to the right or to the left.” 🌍 Register for the End of Year Prayerthon Join believers from around the world on December 31 for 18+ hours of prayer, teaching, and intercession across six core pillars of life. 👉🏾 Register here: bit.ly/mwgprayerthon 💛 Partnership Spotlight: Heifer International Heifer International is a global nonprofit that empowers women farmers like Akanbi Ashiata, who grew up in Lagos and struggled to access fair funding to grow her tomato business. Through Heifer’s Micro-Loan Impact Fund, she received her first affordable loan and was able to expand her business and support her family. 👉🏾 Be the blessing for a woman like Akanbi: heifer.org/blessed Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this vulnerable end-of-year episode, Tatum opens up about navigating a year of big transition—welcoming a new baby, starting law school, stewarding family and business, and still choosing to make God the CEO of it all. She shares how 2025 has exposed areas for growth, internal “shoulds,” and noise… but also how her foundation in God has kept her steady. Tatum also announces that the podcast will be on pause for December as she focuses on finals, rest, and seeking God for the next phase of the Bible on Business series—coming back in the new year with more teaching and visual, behind-the-scenes content. Then we dive back into Part 2 of her powerful conversation with Pastor Tiffany Sowah. Tiffany shares the real cost of obedience: relocating in 30 days off fragmented instructions from God, losing a major federal contract, walking through a “manna season” where she and her husband had just enough for each day, and even surrendering her dream car and apartment. She talks honestly about anger, depression, and feeling like she’d “lost everything”—and how God reframed it as giving everything up to follow Him. This episode is for the entrepreneur, leader, or believer who is: Wrestling with hesitation around a big instruction from God Questioning if they “heard Him right” because obedience led to hardship In a season where it feels like everything is being stripped, not added Wanting to understand what it really means to count the cost and still say “yes” We also share the heart behind the New Year’s Eve Prayer-a-thon, how it was birthed in the middle of Tiffany’s lowest financial season, and why you absolutely want to be in the virtual room this year. The Prayer-a-thon: Heart + Invitation How the first Prayer-a-thon (Dec 2023) was birthed while Tiffany was working a seasonal job at Ross, living with her parents, and rebuilding from scratch The purpose of the Prayer-a-thon: to end the year and enter the next one in the only place that sustains us—God’s presence Growing from an 8–12 hour broadcast to an 18–20 hour global prayer experience with people joining from all over the world Testimonies of people who planned to “hop on for a bit” and ended up staying all day Why you should come ready to log in “for an hour”… but be prepared to want to stay much longer Register for the Prayer-a-thon: bit.ly/mwgprayerthon 💛 Partnership Spotlight: Heifer International Heifer International is a global nonprofit that empowers women farmers like Akanbi Ashiata, who grew up in Lagos and struggled to access fair funding to grow her tomato business. Through Heifer’s Micro-Loan Impact Fund, she received her first affordable loan and was able to expand her business and support her family. 👉🏾 Be the blessing for a woman like Akanbi: heifer.org/blessed Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum sits down with one of our favorites, Pastor Tiffany Sowah, for a real and raw conversation about what it actually looks like to depend on God in business, ministry, and life. The last time Tiffany was on the show was in 2020. Since then, everything has changed: she’s become Pastor Tiffany, married, relocated twice (from Philly to North Carolina and now living full-time in Ghana), shifted from multi–six-figure consulting to full-time ministry, and has walked through some of the hardest financial and emotional seasons of her life. In Part 1 of this conversation, Tatum and Tiffany talk about the Bible on Business journey, the difference between worldly “Christian-branded” strategies and truly building from the Word, and the uncomfortable reality of learning to really depend on God when everything in you wants to lean on hustle, self-reliance, or what looks “practical” on paper. Tiffany shares how God: Took her from a busy life in Philly as a property owner and multi–six-figure business owner Led her to North Carolina for a softer, more peaceful lifestyle and deeper feminine identity Began quietly preparing her heart to slow down in business and ramp up in ministry Used isolation, relocation, and hidden seasons to cultivate boldness, honesty, and a lifestyle of obedience They also talk about: Growing up in church vs. actually forming a personal relationship with God How Catalyst Church in Philly became Tiffany’s training ground for intercession, obedience, and spiritual maturity Why accountability, therapy, and spiritual covering matter so much when you’re hungry for God The danger of consuming only digital, “sound bite” faith and how to slow down and discern voices online Why wanting “more” (peace, better quality of life, financial freedom, the ability to be a kingdom financier) isn’t wrong—but must be submitted to God This conversation is a masterclass in counting the cost, moving when God says move, and allowing Him to reshape your identity beyond hustle, proximity-based friendships, and public success. Stay tuned for Part 2, where they dig into what happened when Tiffany’s business unraveled, the reality of manna seasons, grief in transitions, and how God used it all to expand her global ministry and birth the Prayerthon. 🌍 Register for the End of Year Prayerthon Join believers from around the world on December 31 for 18+ hours of prayer, teaching, and intercession across six core pillars of life. 👉🏾 Register here: bit.ly/mwgprayerthon 💛 Partnership Spotlight: Heifer International Heifer International is a global nonprofit that empowers women farmers like Akanbi Ashiata, who grew up in Lagos and struggled to access fair funding to grow her tomato business. Through Heifer’s Micro-Loan Impact Fund, she received her first affordable loan and was able to expand her business and support her family. 👉🏾 Be the blessing for a woman like Akanbi: heifer.org/blessed Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum continues the Bible on Business series with a sobering reminder: faith does not replace fundamentals. Yes, we pray, fast, and follow God’s leading—but we also have to be good stewards who understand the basic building blocks of business. Tatum walks you through what it really means to count the cost (Luke 14:28–30) and breaks down the core fundamentals every God-led entrepreneur needs in place so you’re not just starting things… you’re able to sustain and scale them with integrity. Sponsored by Heifer International So many women around the world are called by God to build, but lack access to basic financial resources. In Nigeria, 98% of women can’t access formal credit—no capital, no accounts, no way to grow what God has put in their hands. When you give to Heifer’s Microloan Impact Fund, 100% of your gift goes directly to women entrepreneurs so they can access the capital they need to build sustainable farms and businesses. Turn blessing into opportunity: fund a loan today at Heifer.org/blessed In This Episode, We Cover: Why “being super saved” isn’t enough to build a sustainable business – How many Christian entrepreneurs skip the unglamorous fundamentals and then blame God for what’s really mismanagement. Exegesis of Luke 14:28–30 – What Jesus meant when He said to count the cost before building. – How this applies directly to launching and running a business in 2025 and beyond. Faith + Fundamentals = Fruit that Lasts – Why spiritual disciplines (prayer, fasting, obedience) must be paired with practical disciplines (planning, numbers, systems). – How to avoid building businesses that look spiritual on the surface but are structurally weak underneath. The Core Fundamentals Every Business Needs Tatum breaks down “Business 101” in simple, God-first language: Executive Summary – Your God-given assignment in business and what you’re really here to do. Market Research – How to stop guessing and actually understand your industry + the people you’re called to serve. Products & Services – Clarifying what you’re selling and how it solves a real problem. Marketing & Sales Plan – Why “posting on social” isn’t a strategy and how to think in terms of your customer’s journey. Operations Plan – Systems, structure, and stewardship so your business can function without chaos. Financial Plan – Startup costs, pricing, margins, and budgeting so you’re not “successful” online but broke in real life. Risk & Legal Structure – Why you need professional counsel (attorney + accountant) and can’t skip this step. How Fundamentals Protect Your Witness – Why half-finished projects, abandoned brands, and messy business practices misrepresent the God you claim to serve. – How counting the cost upfront protects your name and His. Free Resources Mentioned: The Clarity Cleanse (30-Day Guided Detox) A free 30-day guide to help you quiet the noise, detox from distraction, and sharpen your ability to hear God concerning your business decisions. Download: https://blessed-bossed-up.kit.com/claritycleanse?_gl=1%2Ajrpgn0%2A_gcl_au%2ANTA2NDAzNC4xNzYxOTU5MDU2LjE4MDQzOTc3LjE3NjIyMDAzMzcuMTc2MjIwMDMzNg.. Business Plan Templates: https://blessed-bossed-up.kit.com/faithandfundamentals Join Us for the 2025 Prayer-thon We are partnering again with the Mornings with God community for a 12+ hour Prayer-thon on December 31, 2025—a global time of teaching, intercession, and focused prayer as we prepare to step into 2026. We’ll be praying into: Spiritual Wellness & Development Health & Physical Wellbeing Mental & Emotional Health Finances & Vocation Community & The Nations Relationships Register free: http://bit.ly/mwgprayerthon Scripture Reference: Luke 14:25–33 Thanks for listening to Blessed + Bossed Up. Don’t forget to download your Clarity Cleanse and Business Plan Templates at the links above, and share this episode with a friend who’s ready to build with both faith and fundamentals. Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Episode summary: Today we kick off a new how-to series answering a listener’s question: “I study what you teach, but I still feel stuck.” Tatum lays the foundation—sobriety of mind and spirit—so you can actually apply the Bible to your business. She shares her pruning season (fasting, laying down a growing business, guarding inputs), why entrepreneurship can be intoxicating, and how to detox the influences that dull your sensitivity to the Holy Spirit. You’ll get a free 30-day Clarity Cleanse to practice sober-minded focus before we ever talk funnels, launches, or plans. Join The Society (community + Bible studies + prayer): https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/community Scriptures referenced 1 Peter 5:8 – Be sober-minded and watchful. 1 Thessalonians 5:6–8 – Stay awake and sober; breastplate of faith and love. Mark 14:38 – Watch and pray; spirit willing, flesh weak. (Also mentioned across the episode: Romans 12:2; Philippians 4:8; 2 Corinthians 10:5; Psalm 119:37; Matthew 6:22; Psalm 139:23–24; Matthew 6:33; Proverbs 16:3) Key takeaways Clarity precedes strategy. If you’re not sober-minded, you’ll chase metrics and momentum instead of God’s voice. “With” not “for.” You’re building with God as CEO—His timing, His blueprint, His outcomes. Guard your inputs. Influence creep is subtle: self-help replaces Scripture, “quick wins” replace consecration. Two paths. Mixed mentorship + hurry = wasted time and money; obedience in His timing = preserved energy, precise results, lasting fruit. Kingdom metrics ≠ vanity metrics. Success = pleasing God. Revenue follows revelation in due season. 5 intoxicating influences to detox Success culture & performance pressure Digital noise & comparison Mixed mentorship (many voices before The Voice) Materialism & metrics-based validation Over-independence (DIY vs. dependence on God) The Clarity Cleanse (30 days) A free, simple month of daily Scripture, reflection, declarations, and prayer to detox the mind, mouth, media, and motives so you can hear clearly and obey promptly. Download: blessed-bossed-up.kit.com/claritycleanse Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

A listener wrote in after the Bible on Business series saying they’re inspired, but struggle to get the same revelation when reading the Bible on their own—and don’t know how to apply it to business. That honest question surfaced a real gap between hearing and doing, which Tatum will address with a brand-new, step-by-step practical series on building a business with God today (not 2017). Before the series starts next episode, we’re reposting this foundational teaching to set perspective: revelation isn’t just for revenue—it’s for building eternally sound work that will withstand God’s testing. Listen with fresh ears, take notes, and get ready for a practical “how” series starting next. Episode Summary Tatum frames business-building through 1 Corinthians 3:13–15: everything we build will be tried by fire, revealing whether it was constructed on Christ or on straw. She walks through the tension between earthly success and eternal reward, invites honest heart work (contentment, motives, obedience), and gives a practical inspection checklist to evaluate what you’re building—so it lasts. Anchor Scripture 1 Corinthians 3:13–15 — God’s fire reveals the quality of our work; only what’s built on Christ endures. Also referenced: 1 Cor. 3:11, 2 Cor. 5:10, Matthew 6:19–20, Galatians 6:9, James 1:12, Mark 10:45, Hebrews 11:6, 2 Timothy 4:8, 1 Peter 5:4, 1 Thessalonians 2:19, Romans 6:23, John 3:16, Revelation 21:4, 1 Corinthians 15:42, 52. Key Themes Perspective reset: We’re not only building for launches and KPIs—we’re building for Judgment Day. Foundation matters: Only Christ is a durable foundation (1 Cor. 3:11). Eternal rewards: Salvation is by grace; rewards relate to faithfulness and obedience. Heart inspection: Contentment, motives, service, perseverance, and faith over sight. From revelation to practice: The upcoming series will translate Scripture → systems, decisions, and daily leadership. Checklist (from the episode) Ask and answer honestly—by your actions, not lip service: Foundation: Is this truly built on Jesus—or on trends, ambition, and metrics? Faithfulness & Obedience: Are your policies, leadership, and operations aligned with Scripture (not just intuition)? Service vs. Sales: Are you serving the people you’re called to, or merely selling? (Mark 10:45) Fruit: Do your processes reflect God’s character (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control)? Perseverance: Do you endure God-assignments when it’s hard, or quit? (Gal. 6:9; James 1:12) Faith in Practice: Do you operate by faith, not sight—especially when results lag? (Heb. 11:6; 2 Cor. 5:7) Reflection Prompts If God’s plan looked nothing like your vision board, would you still follow Him? Where is contentment still being formed in you? Which part of your business would burn under testing—and why? What one policy or practice can you realign to Scripture this week? Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code NetSuite.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy