Dead Ass with Khadeen and Devale Ellis
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LOVE, SEX, MARRIAGE and everything in between! That's what Khadeen and Devale Ellis spent 5 years discussing on their Webby Award winning podcast Dead Ass. Now that they've talked it out, disagreed, and come to many understandings, it's time for something new. Ellis Ever After, formerly Dead Ass, is what's next. From ironing out the newlywed blues, to being seasoned spouses who know each other inside and out. Each week, the Ellises discuss what they know now about love, sex, marriage, parenting, money, and much much more. And they've invited their team, Tribble, Josh and Matt to add their two cents.
LOVE, SEX, MARRIAGE and everything in between! That's what Khadeen and Devale Ellis spent 5 years discussing on their Webby Award winning podcast Dead Ass. Now that they've talked it out, disagreed, and come to many understandings, it's time for something new. Ellis Ever After, formerly Dead Ass, is what's next. From ironing out the newlywed blues, to being seasoned spouses who know each other inside and out. Each week, the Ellises discuss what they know now about love, sex, marriage, parenting, money, and much much more. And they've invited their team, Tribble, Josh and Matt to add their two cents.
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The Ellis in-laws are all settled in their own homes and the energy between K&D feels new. In this episode, Khadeen & Devale share with the crew just what has changed. Dead ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We all go through grief. So why not talk about it. In this episode, the crew chat with Devale about his recent loss. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Ellises and the crew know what it takes to change locations when it's time to elevate. In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble discuss the benefits and challenges of relocating. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
As adults, it can be hard to find friends you trust that you can really take part in the vision you have for yourself and you community. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss what it takes to build a village. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
First time home buying can be scary. But with home ownership as a route to financial freedom, the more you know, the better off you'll be. In this episode the Ellises and the crew discuss what the first time home buying process was like for Matt. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sometimes trying to help someone isn't about what they need, it's about what you need. And when your giving becomes a savior complex, it's best to reconsider. In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh & Tribble talk about getting over the savior complex. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
With the way the world is changing, the traditional school structure may not be right for every kid. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk education changes that suit their kids' personalities and needs. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Lately, the food recalls have been O.D. Grocery shopping these days feels like a scavenger hunt. In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, and the crew talk about how the latest food recalls are affecting their routines. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk the good and bad of social media. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss how listening to your partner can open up possibilities in your relationship. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
It's time for another game night with the Ellises and the crew. Dead Ass! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Even the things we're good at take effort to perform well. When it comes to performance anxiety, we've overcome our fair share. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss overcoming the worst of it. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
It's not the end of the season yet. But we had to get in y'all's business anyway. Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble are back with another listener letters episode. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
When you say yes to everything, you can get yourself caught up in stressful situations. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about how they learned to say no. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Khadeen did a detox and we all want to know how it went. In this episode, Khadeen tells all about her deep body cleanse. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We all have unresolved traumas from our childhoods that our parents may have caused because they didn't know any better. But when do we stop blaming our parents and take responsibility for our own behavior? In this episode, the Ellises and the crew share their experiences on healing childhood wounds. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The oldest Ellis king is going to high school! And everything is about to change. In this episode, The Ellises discuss with the crew what that should prepare for as their son goes into high school. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Our parents harped on the idea of going to college as a means to success. But is college really worth the debt these days? In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble discuss the pros and cons. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
As our parents age, we have to teach them the new things that we've learned as adults. Like how to leverage your retirement, how to stay fit and healthy, and how to spot AI scams! Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The grands are moving out! In this episode, Khadeen & Devale discuss their decision to get Khadeen's parents their own crib. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
You already know what time it is! The Ellises and the crew give their best advice to listener questions. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
2026 has been nothing short of eventful. In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble discuss their favorite pop culture moments of 2026 so far. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
When it comes to having a career that you love, it doesn't always come easy. In this epsiode, the Ellises and the crew discuss how they got it out the mud to get where they are. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The kids are growing up with more technology than we did. How do we teach them how to be good people with all of the outside influence they have access to? In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about teaching their kids beyond the classroom. Dead Ass! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
It's been a while since the Ellises talked about sex. In this episode, Khadeen, Devale and the crew discuss how their sex lives have changed with age and experience. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
When Khadeen's father was diagnosed with cancer, the Ellises didn't know what to expect. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss what they thought, how they felt and what they did to help Papa beat cancer. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Your favorite podcast is back! In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss why this 6 week hiatus was much needed for everyone. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Beyonce is the latest to reach billionaire status and the people have mixed feelings. In this episode, The Ellises and the crew discuss what they would do if they had a billy. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
When you love someone, the measure isn't how much you fight, but how well you fight. Conflict is inevitable, how you handle it is impactful. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The future is here! And the sentiments around AI are varied. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss their thoughts on AI, technology and what's next. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
If you're an OG listener, you've definitely hear Devale say that it takes one thousand muscle movements to become muscle memory. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about what moves they made to become experts in their fields. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The best way to ensure your own happiness? Gratitude. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss what role gratitude plays in their success. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The kids are growing up! And those teenage years are not for the weak! In this episode, The Ellises and the crew discuss the thrills and chills of teenage hormones. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain, @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
When you're the person that everyone comes to when they need help, who do you go to? In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss how it feels to be strong for everyone else. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain , @_matt.ellis , @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
2025 is coming to a close and we're proud of all the things we accomplished and survived this year. It wasn't an easy year, but we made it. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew review their 2025. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
It's our last episode of 2025 and you already know we had to get in y'alls business once again! In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble answer your questions and give some unhinged advice. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Hurricane Melissa devastated the island of Jamaica beyond belief. And while the people on the island are struggling to rebuild, leaning on community for aid and support is more important than ever. The Ellises and the Crew discuss what they've been doing to support Jamaica. Dedicated to the memory of Jamaica's Consul General to New York, Lady Alsion Marie Wilson. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Ellis Ever After InfoWe all have hormones. But do we know how they affect us? And most importantly, do we know how they affect our spouses? The Ellises and the crew talk about hormones, peri-menopause and how to live through it all. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tragedy struck the Ellis family when Papa suddenly had a stroke. The Ellises and the crew discuss what saved his life. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
It's game night! Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble get down and dirty with some fun games that reveal some big secrets! Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What steps do you take to keep your creativity alive? In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss their own practices. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What does it take to be hot all around? The Ellises and the crew define Hot 360. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
You can't truly know the world, if you haven't seen the world. In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble discuss the importance of travel. Because nothing beats a jet 2 holiday. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The old saying goes, you are the company you keep. So if the people around you aren't growing, how can you grow too? In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about how to change the people around you, if you can't change the people around you. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
After turning 40, Khadeen and Devale have put extra attention on their physical health. In this episode, the Ellises discuss the 5 small changes they made that have made them feel their best. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Breaking generational curses just means not doing what our parents did. That can be as big as how we reprimand our kids. And as small as how we spend time together. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss hwo they are changing traditions for their families. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We all need a little help sometimes. The trouble comes when we don't ask for it. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about how to ask for help when we need it. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
As aging millennials, we're all getting to the midlife point where we start to question the rigidity of our lives.The choices we've made because other people said we should. The people and things we've prioritized over our own joy. But before we breakdown, maybe we should break up with people's expectations and live the way we truly want to. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss why midlife ain't a crisis. Dead ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sometimes it takes more than just the routine with your kids. Time well spent can really change things for the better. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss how they've leveled up their parenting with intent. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What is your purpose? Can you say with certainty what you are here to do? Without talking about your career or what makes you money? The Ellises and the crew talk purpose, passion and living well in this episode. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.